imposter syndrome triggered….
i just applied to be on a website that features women illustrators. it is for professional illustrators.
am i professional?
well…what am i if i am not professional? who am i then?
so many questions.
all i can do is write “i believe in me” over & over until i am convinced i am spelling it wrong.
(i believe in me)
i am the sad one
i am the one
my pain is invisible
i am the one
…but when the little voices
“don’t give up”
i may be sad
…but i don’t
so if i were to start an art journal memoir…this would be the first page.
just two more pages to go
and INKtober starts on sunday.
am i going to do it again?
it was really good for my art last year…in fact, i can’t believe it is time for it again already. it seems like just yesterday.
i did buy more paper & more ink.
because…well…you can never have too much paper & ink (what if a zombie apocalypse happens & i can’t get to the art store??)
speaking of zombie apocalypses–i was planning on doing moses jones after i was done with the mistress of mud.
and/or playing around with just using brush & ink….
but i suppose i could do both of those things during INKtober…
meanwhile, bees to get ready for winter.
tomatoes to turn into canned sauce.
basil to make into pesto.
pumpkins & squash to harvest.
lambs & turkeys to butcher.
winter gardens to plan.
new pastures to build.
and i am planning on buying and raising by bottle a billy goat all my own….
and, of course, raising & unschooling four minions….
speaking of all this. i am entertaining the idea of renting the basement out to dusty on the conditions that:
1. we are not in a relationship
2. he pays rent & buys his own food
3. he gets a job
4. he quits smoking
what could go wrong?
see, it’s just that i need need need the help, and no matter how hard i try, i cannot seem to lure peoples of a non-dusty nature to come here & help me.
i know it’s not a good idea. but i will kick him out again if it all goes south.
i just realized why i am feeling
so profoundly sad
i met two of my husbands
& one of my fiances
in septembers past…
september is either a very good
or very bad
month for me
and since my romantic value is so intertwined with my heart value…with my self value….
thanks a fucking lot culture that makes women worthless unless they are valued by a man.
don’t fuck me.
i am unfuckable.
just a baby vessel who is spent already and who draws stupid pictures anyway.
there is this song that comes on the radio that makes me want to run over the artist with my truck. james arthur’s “say you won’t let go.”
man, that song pisses me off. it’s like a man proving he’s mr. perfect, caring man…like there is such a thing.
i am just feeling very oh-so crappy about love & romance & relationships & i just kind of hate everybody right now (not you though.)
if good love exists, i have never actually seen it.
which just pisses me off.
like, what did i do?
did i crush puppies in a past life?
what lesson am i supposed to learn here?
i’m pretty useless these days.
i have produced some art, but i not-so-secretly fear it sucks.
i am a terrible mom.
i just want to crawl in a hole with a bottle of whiskey.
i’m pretty sure i have no friends
or else i’d be saying this to them
not torturing you with it.
and when strangers smile at me in public, i think they must be confused.
sorry if i have sung this song before.
sorry if you are tired of it.
i just feel like crap.
and i hate my art.
have i told you how much i am enjoying this project?
& how frustrated i am with my own work?
the double edged sword of art…
as i work on new pages…i go back and re-do pages i am not so sure about.
the third one there, in progress, is a re-do of this page:
because i realized
1. she should be on a mountain–not a meadow
2. her baby is creepy like those baby jesus babies that look like people instead of babies
3. her robe is not the way i want it
4. and her hair is driving me nuts
plus, i redid this page:
to look like this:
and now the pages look too similar….
what’s my deadline again?
let’s hope it is a soft deadline….
okay, back to watching the ink dry….
i’m feeling a bit crappy today.
i didn’t get morning sleep, which is where my good dreams are–the ones that speak to me. and then light bulbs burned out and my camera left out in the rain by a belligerent 11 year old and all i can do is worry about money to replace these things and i don’t have any money and i am so so tired of people treating me like crap….
so here are my latest illustrations.
i like them & i hate them & i just want to go back to bed.
and i have no beer & no coffee
and, again, no money.
when my empathic heart
it is a kaleidoscope
washing over me
burrowing inside me
traveling through me
borrowing my tears
& my smiles
& no drug–or other person–could ever
make me feel
like i do
when my heart is wide open
& i am safe
the world around me
all of its beauty…its light & its darkness
this is me
this is mine
this is who i am & who i want to be
an open heart
when the minions are away, i have the opportunity to do things i cannot do when they are here. this is one. spreading my art all over the kitchen table. i love doing that. then i work on it, walk past it, add to it, debate over it, smudge & splatter and just be my art. ink ink everywhere.
makes me happy.
other things i do when i am alone: talk to myself, revel in the bathroom being clean, binge watch shows on netflix, focus on myself & my healing….
sometimes being alone is a good thing.